Getting Out of An Abusive Relationship

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I watch your show everyday. I'm writing to tell you how much you let women and men that deal with
abuse your feelings. I listen to how much alot of them never report the abuse I'm one of those that never reported it. I was always told by him that if i reported it he would make my son would pay.
It took me 13 years and my family taking my son
till I left him which i did. then one day he called and really made it sound good he had went to counceling and was going to church.then a couple of years ago he had a wreck that changed his life it was hard to care for him go to college,and work.I graduated and found a real good job. But that only lasted 4 months. He called me @ work and my boss picked up the phone
just as he was telling me that he had a bullet with my name this lasted for 3 hours I left work and drove to the police station and the court house was closed so I called 911 and waited for a cop the whole time he kept calling.when the cop got there he was calling @ the same time so he heard him make the threat. He never stopped calling even when he was in jail.He ended up with 6 months it jail. But the worst thing was after he got out of jail him started up again. I guess I should say started going by my sons to catch me there. well he filed court papers to get the guns
back and there was 2 that he had with him loaded with a bullet in the chamber.He lost his gun rights! We went to court and the judge gave them bsck to him but he had to give them to someone to keep for him. The person that has them sees him almost everyday. To let you know this happened in spokane wa. So when people tell you that the cops and courts in thier states do not help they are not lying to you. I do not go to my sons much he comes to see me that way I do not have to run in to town and take a chance running in to him.Do you know how life changing this is to someone & how much it makes it hard to be with anyone else
and how much it affects getting a good job. when they ask what happened to the last job and why I was there only 4 months but the doctor even wrote me a letter of recomendation.It is hard to lie as to why I'm not there any longer

Dear Judge,
I am 30 years old and just got away from an abusive husband. I put him in jail for 14 months and now I am back in school to better my life. I am going to school to earn a degree so that I can be a domestic violence counseler. In one of my classes I have to write a paper about someone that does some of the things we want to do. You are very insperational and I would love to be able to ask you some questions for my paper. I live in Kentucky so a face to face interview would be very difficult. Please contact me.

I stayed in a abusive marriage for 25 years. My advice to young women. RUN! there is no prize at the end, there is no that a girl at the end. I was molested as a child, my mother would tell you she hated me. But at the end of the 25 years so "my kids could have a better life" my daughter in law tells me that I need to put up or shut up basically. Really you will end up alone anyway no matter what you do. My now ex was willing to bring his girlfriend in the home for me to cook and clean for them and he saw nothing wrong with it. He stated what is rape anyway that is what it's for isn't it? Years of this has left me crippled, unable to walk because of arthritis in my feet, knees, hips (by trauma) the loss of 4 babies at his hands, I have no health insurance, just had a heart attack, had to leave my home and received 5000.00 for a lake side home all because the psychiatrist called and said my life was in danger and I needed to leave. I went to court, he had one DV against him and was to have another, but the jury felt sorry for him it was Dec 19th and besides I had moved out of state for safety, he was set free and the DA was dumb founded as I had a officer, pictures, witnesses, and testimony! He got off free, paying 5000.00 for the home and he pays alimony for me to pay the marital dept and I have to pay taxes on it and he gets to claim and deduct it. You see there is no prize for staying! accept with my daughter who is my greatest supporter in saying how strong I am now. I don't feel it. I just feel I should be able to get the money he hid (over 100,000), the money for the 100,000 home that he and his new wife lives in (Divorce Jan 05 and they married May), He could pay off the alimony, he could give me another start after disabling me. But please please abuse maybe subtle at first, slightly noticeable while dating--make that a red flag and RUN PLEASE RUN There will be no pity party for you. Go inside to that strong strong place inside you pull it out and get out. and on another note if you know how I can get the funds from him including all of alimony so I do not have to be reminded of him every month every year and make the abuse stop! then please contact me. Please.

I was married for almost 9 years.My ex husband was a cop.I left him a lil over a year ago because he put a gun to my head.I didnt report it right away and when i did the police department said they could help me bc he said it didnt happen and i needed a pic or some proof..he stalked me and yet the police did nothing.I dont know what to do.my ex husband moved his girlfriend in his 1 bed room apt. with her 3 kids and his brother.His girlfriend her 3 kids and my son slept in 1 bed i called cps and they did nothing.She finally left him bc her daughter had bruises up and down her back.... i need help i dont know what to do??/ plz write back

Hi,
I would like to send an e-m to judge pirro to tell my story and may get her advice. I watch her judge in chanel 13 , and I admire her judge and the way she action for any case.
My comment is how can I send judge Pirro an e-m?
Thank you,

Judge Pirro,
You are one incredible woman. Being the mother of 3 daughters, one could dream of raising intelligent wonderful daughters into wonderful intelligent women. I was doing well until last week when I found out what I had suspected for about a month now, domestic violence in my youngest daughters relationship. She has lost all of her friends, and thinks everyone hates her. I tell her how much she is loved by her family. She is bright, beautiful and loved. Why in the world would she think this is ok? Help me to understand. Of course she deniee enerything.
HELP!

Jeanine, you are one of the hottest women I have ever seen!! I'm 43, decent looking, and would love to take you to dinner ANYTIME! I hope you'll email if you're interested. I'd fly anywhere to meet you in a heartbeat!!!!

daer judge the 14 year need to be your court.
to be a lrason for his beenifite.
bradford thomas

What is sad is that so much of the domestic violence and abusive relationship goes unreported. Hopefully, by providing information, this will assist in bringing more case to light.

Jugde I like the way you handle the people who comes on your show and they be in the wrong, the show that will be coming on on wednesday is wat im going through now i dont know why i keep going back its something holding me there i love him to much to leave but im tried of the beating im only twenty i shouldn't have to go through this im not married and even if i was i wouldnt want to go through this is there something i can do before its to late please respond.


love miss louisville

I would like to know about that first case today about that jerk which raped the girls, and if there is any resolution as to his status and location.

Dear Judge Pirro,
Being a child of inncest I honestly believe that the aunt knew. My mother knew what was going on with my step father and she chose to stick by his side and protect him. Yes I did turn him in and justice was awarded however, because of this my mother and I have no relationship. So my comment is that I believe the aunt is covering up for her boyfriend I hope you find him.

So what did the judge find out about the boyfriend? Did she persue as she said she was going to? Do they know where he is? Did they look for him or do what the police did at the time which was NOTHING.

Dear Judge:
As your first real life Family Court Clerk in Yonkers; I want to wish you great success on your new television program. I loved the first show and think you looked beautiful as usual and did a great job. I have always been your biggest fan and have always been so proud to tell people "I was Judge Pirro's first Court Clerk".

Love,

Terry Jacobson


This was a sad case and I believe that the aunt knew that the boyfriend raped both her nieces. But because of her own selfish reasons, not wanting to be alone, she decided not to turn him in. I hope that he rots in jail.


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