Dear Judge Pirro,

I was very moved by the kind act of generosity you did for Yvonne and her family. Hopefully the poor decisions that she has made in the past are over. That being a good mother is the most important thing in her life today. That every choice she makes changes her children's lives forever, good or bad. I'm really glad that you were touched and looked beyond her ignorance to see a good person.

Best regards to you and especially Yvonne,
Victoria

Judge Pirro,

As I viewed today's segment, Ms. Neyland seemed to focus on the inabilities of Mr. Triggs (financial as well as romantic). Perhaps this was her means for negating his disapproving tactics in their brief relationship. With an intent focus on the components of the case, I was somewhat shocked that she accepted a ride with some random guy met on the side of the road, based on his quip regarding her physical attractiveness and moving in with him in short order. My initial conclusion was that both she and Mr. Triggs were gaming (looking for some kind of conquest), be it monetary, emotional or otherwise. She had the look; he had the car and gift of conversation.

The sadness is that looks are just as deceiving as the gifted conversationalist. In reading a couple of the comment posted during the original airing of this case on 9/30/2008; someone claiming to be family, shared hope for her seeking contact with them, however noting that she required counseling vice financial support. Furthermore, another person stating they attended college with Ms. Neyland, and being there during her third pregnancy; however, placing her in the category of a people user. God forbid if this is true. I do recall, though, Ms. Neyland mentioning a son in addition to her two daughters.

If these facts are true, then I feel for Ms Neyland for she may settle for individuals whom possess little if any understanding; however, eliciting all the things she want to hear; and she only acknowledging that she has a man... Sad commentary, but I see this scenario time and again. Ms Neyland, your focus should be on those entrusted to your care (i.e. your children). Love yourself with hope and aspirations not only for your future, but that of your offspring. I smile for you for you’re a precious gift. Appreciate that and go forward….. Lastly, has there been any follow-up regarding the relocation or positive successes in the life of Ms. Neyland?

i have heard of male and female spouses cutting up clothes and destroying property before which is absolutely unacceptable, but for a grown man to do this to property of his girlfriend's innocent children is outrageous. i mean i was absolutely shocked. i am so glad that the judge offered to help her relocate. please keep us all updated on what happens months down the line. thanks...

I watched this show as I do everyday that I possibly can. I was so moved by this show. I hope that anyone else that is in this situation or one similar or even someone that is thinking about getting involved with a man like this will think again. Yvonne was lucky she got out and was blessed by the judge to give her that money to start over. I hope she really does. I would love to find out in 6 months and see where she is and how she is doing. It appeared to me that Yvonne and her daughter were very appreciative.

I tape as well as watch your shows daily.You are a
person who really cares.In the case today I was shocked when Yvonne discussed the personal sex issues in front of her daughter in an open court.
Then she told of sending her daughter with this man.I am very old fashioned and I think actions before your children are clear life lessons.I think that Yvonne needs to see a counselor. The man only did what he was allowed because he was no good.If you have children they do not need to be in the home with a stranger.If you have a 1 bedroom,make the best of it.I admire you for the money given but the advice was very good.I hope and pray that Yvonne will look out for her children as well as herself.God bless you my favorite judge.As a public classroom teacher I have heard some horror stories. Please parents..Do the right thing for our youth.

Dear Judge Pirro,

I was very moved by your show today with Yvonne. May God continue to Bless you with the wisdom to know what to do and when to do it. It was awesome to see you respond to this family. Especially since everyone watching, your show could feel that they were in danger. I am a victim that was shot in the head and in the neck by a person who had threatened to kill his wife. I happened to be in the way at the time, the Lord spared my life but he killed her. Please, any female who read this do not ignore threats. When you feel your life is in danger, get out of dodge…

A Survivor

Dear Judge, I was moved by your kindness to help someone you didn't know but was in need of help. I have never seen this happen on TV before. You are a very special person, for all that you do and will do in the future. Thanks

Judge Pirro,

I seen the case of Yvonne and her daughter with a horrible man, who i felt a bad vibe from. He seemed to be really disrespectful and cocky about what Yvonne had to say about the allegations towards him. He may had spoke his story but he had to be rude and talk back to you Judge Pirro. Well I just wanted to comment about how greatful they are to have you as a Judge and give them $5,000 dollars for their fresh start. I wish them the very best and learn from this situation and be strong as women and know not to deal with a man who would put harm to the family. I LOVE YOUR SHOW and I will be tuning in to your show 5 days a week and attend to school to better my future for my daughter and myself. I don't need a man to accomplish my goals I just need my family and myself to get through it all, no man will interfer my goals.

Sincerely,
Monika

Dear Judge Pirro,
A lot of women needed to hear what you told Yvonne today. That touched me so much, it brought tears to my eyes. What a lucky woman she is. Because that man could've killed her and her kids.Thank you Judge Pirro, God Bless you.

What a great thing you did today, you re simply the greatest..you might have save nothing else than her life

Dear Judge Pirro,

I admire your compassion for Yvonne and her daughter and hopefully she will do the right thing with the generous gift you gave her. My gut feeling tells me, however, that she will not and I hope I'm wrong. I don't think she realized how close she came to almost losing her daughter and perhaps even her own life and some people really have to hit bottom before they can make a change in their lifestyle.

In the interim, thought, I'm curious as to what happened to that man. Was he prosecuted for what he did? Where did he go when you threw him out of your courtroom? Was he held and arrested for destroying her property?

Hopefully there will be an update soon! I watch you every day and enjoy your show very much! After all, us New Yorkers have to stick together..keep up the good work!!

Thank you

Hello Judge Jeanine,

I LOVE your show and watch it whenever I can. I turned on the TV late in the Yvonne case but was truly touched by your gesture to help her relocate. You are truly a judge of justice and compassion and a pleasure to watch. I will continue to support your show here in Canada and continue to speak of you, but now, even more highly!

Blessings to you!

Hello Judge Pirro

As I watched the case concerning "Yvonne" my heart broke to hear and see the matters that so disturbed me as a women. I thank God for your willingness to reach out and help her and her children. It was obvious that she has low self esteem, with low self worth. But after this issue maybe now she will see her way clear and protect herself and her children. I pray that all of her endeavors are met, with her relocating to be closer to family I can only hope that her decision are that which will give her peace and safety.

Thanks a bunch
Ms. Clay

I think your gesture to help Yvonne and her kids get on her feet was remarkable. I was watching the show and praying for her at the same time. I pray he did not touch her daughter! I am not saying every man is bad Yvonne but you CANNOT trust a man that you DON'T know with your kids...boy or girl! Trust God and know that you do deserve respect from a man, DON'T settle for anything less. Relocating won't make a difference if you still make the same decisions. I can't want to get an update on this case.

I,too thought that what the Judge did for Yvonne was quite a noble act. But there were a couple of things that left me feeling less than positive about theoutcome. As pretty as Yvonne was, I have to say that her supposed complete naivte' seemed feigned IMO. I don't doubt for a moment that she'd been involved with,and thereby exposing her daughters to that type of cave man before, that wide-eyed shock at JP's warning about leaving her daughter with a man she'd only known a week was offset by the calm, unaffected look of the daughter.Poor Yvonne and her girls are perfect examples of the cycle of self-hate, and it's gonna take alot more than $5,000 to get them out of it. It's gonna take someone/something/mental help to allow Yvonne to finally see that she is more than pretty. She is WORTHY!Otherwise the future will see that $5,000 in the hands of that jerk or a new jerk, right there in Omaha. I pray not.

The Judge did a good deed for Yvonne and her daughter. Of course, a Judge born and reared in Elmira, NY, I should not be surprise of the pleasant and worthy approach of kindness the Judge displayed. I wish Yvonne uses the money as planned. I’m looking forward to the family's update.

Hello, jp, That was a great show and a great lesson for someone else so they don't make the same mistakes. He's crazy and disrespectful. i would like to wish Yvonne and her daughter luck and if she needs a b. guard iam her man. I have all the credentials to help her, shes very pretty by the way. i canbe reached at my e-mail site. i am an author of the three day way, paul j. godfrey at barnes& noble.com take care p.g.

Dear Judge Pirro.. I think you are a remarkable lady and judge. You show so much compassion and interest in the people who come before you. I feel you giving Yvonne $5000.00 to help her to relocate and start all over will add another jewel to your crown you will receive in heaven. I just hope Yvonne uses that money for the reason you gave it to her. May god bless you and your family.

I think that was a great thing that Judge Pirro did for yvonne and her family. I hope that yvonne realize that was a bless door that was open for her and by all mean take advantage of it.

The judge did a wonderful,heart rending move by reaching into her purse to assist Yvonne and put her on the road to recovery. I hope Yvonne has learn to be careful in her choice of men being around her daughter at that age and heal from what could have been an even worse ordeal. By Devone on July 3,2009 3.58pm

I would like to meet yvonne. women like that need help from good man. it take a lot of time to get to know someone NOT IN A WEEK!!!! WOW

Judge Pirro,

You are a truly caring and sincere person that is a model for all to learn from. I love your show and am glad to know that there are still good people like you in this world. It is discouraging at times when things get rough and hope that other people will be inspired when they witness a random act of kindness like this. God bless you and your family.

Sincerely,
Sara

I just watched this program as I do every day it was really nice to see a Judge show feelings towards a case and the people involved. Loved it when the Judge threw that jerk off of a boyfriend out of the court room! Lady you should have used better judgment just for your childrens sake!! We as women do stupid things to either get ahead in life or just because we are lonely but the bottom line is you come first but if you have children they come first. Your love life can wait until your children are all grown. You will have plenty of time left to play and make more misstakes in life and hopefully by then you will have self respect for yourself and care more about your safety so then you will make all the right decisions. Enjoy raising your children. Good luck with relocating. Dont squander that money on stupid things.$5,000. isnt that much money these days. Get your rent paid and security deposit and some furniture and a good used car or better yet live where you can use public transportation for you and your family. Then the money will go further. Dont sit around saying you will look for a job in 2 weeks or a month do it as soon as you have a bed to sleep in ..get looking the sooner you have a job the sooner you will have a check from work in your hands to get ahead the longer you wait the further behind you will get. I wish you and your children good luck and God be with you all! Cindy from the Keweenaw of Upper Michigan

Good afternoon Judge Pirro:
That was such a beautiful thing that you did for Yvonne and her family. As I watched her case, I thought to myself what a beautiful woman. Somewhere in her young life she was misguided. I am the niece of a woman who did the same thing. At age 27 she had seven children. She was so very beautiful. I recently saw her after being estranged for at least 14 years. I could see her entire life on her face. It was not a good thing. My hope is that Yvonne does not end up that way. I too have made many mistakes, but when it comes to children, we as parents must protect them at all cost. Hopefully, she'll get herself together so she can continue to care for her babies because they need her. Her daughter had on too much make-up for her age.

I'm adding Yvonne and her children to my prayer list. I really pray she use the $5000.00 to start over in another state.

I would like to see and update to this case with Yvonne and see if she did use the money wisely and did relocate.

I really poray that she gets it together and focus on her family. She needs to find happiness within herself and stop looking for the comfort of a man. Her daughter is beautiful and so is she. I wish her well and hope she stays on the right path.

I think what the Judge did for Yvonne and her family was admirable, and very kind. She did not have to help Yvonne. It seems that she looked through the eyes of the child to have a better future for the child and her mother. I also want to become a judge and cases like this, is the reason why. This has been my favorite episode.I hope Yvonne and her family appreciate and use the money to better their fuure as a family.